So often we question God on why he doesn't respond to our prayers the way we want him to. "I've held up my end God, where are you now?". There is a problem with this mentality. It is much more than a simple misunderstanding of God's timing. Deep down, when we think this way, we are questioning his commitment and faithfulness to us. There is no one more faithful than him.
Throughout the scriptures, in almost every single book, we see that we as people turn away from God. But we also see that when we cry out and turn back to God, he is still there and embraces us with open arms.
Jesus's commitment to the apostles despite their numerous shortcomings is second to none. Before facing his eventual brutal humiliation, flogging, and crucifixion, we see him under tremendous stress, sweating blood and asking if there is "any other way". He walked directly to the cross, meeting death with a kiss. Yes, he overcame death, something only he could accomplish, but we cannot disregard the amount of commitment he has for us. In the Great Commission at the end of Matthew, Jesus says that he is with his disciples until the end of the age.
Our mentality of "I've held up my end God, where are you now" can lead to, and even attempt to justify, things like divorce. Things aren't going the way you want so you give up. Divorce is a break in commitment, a grasp for control, and a desire for self. Divorce says that God won't come through.
In Hosea, we see that Hosea is told to marry Gomer, a prostitute. Over and over Hosea pursues Gomer, grabbing her from lovers' arms. As hard as it is to swallow Hosea's story, it tells us of God's unfailing commitment to us.
The beautiful thing is that, despite our unfaithfulness to him, he remains faithful (2 Timothy 2:13). Unlike all other relationships in our lives, God doesn't dip out when things get tough. God always accepts us with overflowing forgiveness. God is jealous for us because he wants us. We cheat on him constantly. He pursues us when we run. He loves us even after all the unfaithfulness. Take heart! He will come through. He will incline his ear to us when we cry out. Our loved ones may pass, and surely we will suffer, but he is with us and is fully committed to us.
"For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need." Hebrews 4:15-16